Here’s Why You Continue To Be A Doormat And What You Can Do To Stand Up For Yourself And Go After What You Really Really Want!
Do you find yourself saying yes when you really really wanted to say no? Would you like to stop being a doormat and stand up for yourself like the self-respecting person that you are? How would you like to finally go after what it is you really really want in your life? […]
Lessons from Changing Colours, Changing Moods
Having sort of planned in my head to get a proper pedicure done (as opposed to the DIY variety) I eventually seized the moment recently. The #1 lesson here is that without a concrete plan, your desires can simply remain dreams. Yet, I know that I do not go through the goal setting action planning process for every single aspect of my life. I love flexibility and spontaneity and I’ve got room for that in my life. I have to. […]
Here’s How to Change Your Current Reality Especially If It’s Toxic or Doesn’t Serve You, So you can Defy It – Even if Nothing’s Worked Before!
Precisely 5 years ago to the exact month of my business launch, my marriage officially came to an end - after nearly two and a half years of a horrendous separation and divorce process. Alongside [...]
Why You Need to Speak Up
Dear Blossom How are you doing, in this season of goodwill? Are you looking forward to the big Christmas day/weekend? To spending time with family and friends? Or are missing certain family members and friends and feeling rather lonely and blue? Whatever the case, do speak up for yourself when you need to. Why? Because when you don’t, not only are you doing yourself a disservice, you are doing a disservice to others. […]
If you want a change, make a change
Dear Blossom It’s amazing how the outdoors gives one a fresh perspective. I find it fascinating how engaging with nature, just going for a walk, can clear the cobwebs from one’s head. This thought came to mind the other day, which started out rather groggy for me – what with having so much to sift through and just generally feeling ‘meh’. I went for a walk – it was cold, crisp and clear – and came back home with the reminder that: “If you’re doing something, and it’s not giving you the results you want, do something different.” […]
With Whom Do You Hang Out?
Dear Blossom Have a quick review of the last 6 weeks: where did you spend most of your time? Who did you spend significant moments with? With whom did you share your highs and your lows, your doubts and your dreams? And how did you feel on the inside afterwards? Honoured? Listened to? Inspired? Motivated? Or was it the opposite? […]
