#Shame

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How Do You Cope with Projected Shame?

The shame we feel for failing in some way is bad enough and can keep us stuck.  See here for my earlier article on how to get unstuck from shame.  However, projected shame - the shame that rightfully belong to someone else which we unwittingly carry, can be even more crushing.  This can come about [...]

By | August 20th, 2018|Emotions|0 Comments

How Shame Keeps You Stuck and What You Can Do About It

What a shame!  Even with the best intentions, we fall short, and feel shame.  For example, I’d had a very busy week.  Come Saturday morning, I thought I’d get up to speed with all my outstanding financial matters.   Just as I heaved a sigh of relief on completion, I received a message chasing up a payment.  I could have cried with embarrassment.   […]

By | July 16th, 2018|Emotions|0 Comments